Now if you do:
C:\Users\Raul>nmap -T2 192.168.1.20
Starting Nmap 6.40 ( http://nmap.org ) at 2014-12-05 17:22 Central Standard Time
Nmap scan report for 192.168.1.20
Host is up (0.086s latency).
Not shown: 996 filtered ports
PORT STATE SERVICE
80/tcp open http
443/tcp open https
993/tcp open imaps
3389/tcp open ms-wbt-server
Nmap done: 1 IP address (1 host up) scanned in 927.56 seconds
Did you notice the time, it took 927 seconds, mean 15 minutes, Yes, to avoid the to be detected you need to move slowly and slowly, one packet at the time so the IPS will time out and ignore the packet.
You could run nmap 192.168.1.20 without the T2 switch and would be faster if there is NOT any IPS/IDS, if there is one you lost the connection and you would need to wait until the IPS remove your IP address from the black listed list.
So to make sure you do not lose time and get good result in your pentest scope, you need to be snick, LOL
Takes time to sharp your skill, just keep practicing and you will get it.
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